The Art of Portuguese Greetings

In Portugal, greetings are more than just words—they're a ritual that reflects the warmth and social nature of Portuguese culture. Understanding when and how to greet someone is essential to fitting in and showing respect.

The Three Essential Greetings

Portuguese has three time-based greetings: 'Bom dia' (good morning, until noon), 'Boa tarde' (good afternoon/evening, noon to nightfall), and 'Boa noite' (good night, after dark or before bed). Unlike English, Portuguese doesn't distinguish between 'good afternoon' and 'good evening'—both are simply 'boa tarde'.

The Social Kiss

In Portugal, the traditional greeting between acquaintances involves two kisses on the cheeks—right cheek first, then left. This applies to both women greeting women, and women greeting men. Men typically shake hands with each other, though close male friends may hug. These physical greetings are standard, so don't be surprised when a Portuguese acquaintance leans in for the double kiss!

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The Portuguese never greet just once—they greet you with warmth, two kisses, and often a third inquiry about your family.

After the initial greeting, it's customary to ask 'Tudo bem?' (Everything good?). This isn't just a formality—Portuguese people genuinely want to know how you are. The conversation may extend to asking about family members, work, or recent events. Taking time for these social niceties is important in Portuguese culture.